A Debate On Sex

     I want to start a debate, not for myself, but for the men who don’t know when, or even IF their women have orgasms.

     Also for the women, whose men could learn from this, as to what he needs to do to help her out a little.

     I heard a tease today, for a local morning radio show,  who will discuss, on Monday, a study that shows that 70% of men do not know if their women orgasm.

     I am no stud, so don’t think I am on a soapbox, but WTF! How can they not know?!?

     I am asking that comments be left by both sexes explaining two different things:

     1.) Men! Do you honestly think she had an orgasm? What clues did you have to reveal that she did?

And, if she didn’t, what was her excuse? Does she fake the same way every time?

     2.) Women! DO you orgasm when having sex? If not, why fake one? What needs to be accomplished or done by your man to achieve the ultimate climax?

     Like I said, I find it hard to believe that a whopping 70% of men have zero clue that women orgasm, and I want this to be a lesson for both sides, in a playful, educational way.


3 Responses to “A Debate On Sex”

  1. 1 sweetiegirlz September 27, 2008 at 1:24 am

    Because 70 percent of men do not CARE if she does have one or not! Just my opinion.

  2. 2 writeableramblings September 27, 2008 at 9:00 pm

    70 percent don’t know! wow! i am shocked by that. personally i always orgasm and even if i didn’t i wouldnt fake one. usually tell tale signs are her putting her head back, she becomes even more wet, sometimes even pulling you closer. maybe the reason they don’t know is because they aren’t paying attention???? 🙂

  3. 3 hollytraveling September 28, 2008 at 9:25 pm

    Hahahaha…I said the exact same thing to myself as sweetiegirlz writes above. You assumed the women were faking, I assumed the men didn’t know simply because they never asked or cared.

    Here’s the thing, women orgasm much differently than men. And the truth is not all women orgasm every single time. It doesn’t mean it was bad sex, or they didn’t enjoy it, it’s just the way it is for some women. And here’s my tip to the men, one way to get her to orgasm if she’s not, is to not focus on it. Focus on enjoying the act and being in the moment. The more the man and the woman make a female orgasm the singular achievement, the harder it gets to reach that point.

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