If You Write It, Can You Say It?

     I read a post in someone’s blog just recently, and they brought up the whole topic on how bloggers can write anything at all about people or events.

     They also said that certain bloggers tend to hide behind their blogs because it’s a way for them to express themselves in a way they would never do to a person’s face.

     Well I am here to say that whatever I have written here in the past, and I have written ALOT, and whatever I will write in the future, I am willing to say in person to anyone.

     I am not afraid to hide behind what I slap down in these posts and I would say the same to the people I am writing about.

     I feel that if something has to be said, it will be said.

     Yes, I may tiptoe around certain things, because I have been known to tiptoe around in person to people, knowing full well things are touchy, and I can respect that.

     But if something needs to be said about someone, or if someone needs to be called out on something, damn it I will do it!

     I also WANT to be called out, too. Let me hear about it! If I have screwed up something in person, I always have an open door to hear criticism about my decisions.

     Believe me! I have heard ALOT about shit I have done from my close friends and family. I like to keep those type of people around to keep me on the straight and narrow. If they were not here, who knows where I would be?

     So if anyone reads any of these posts and feel I need an ass-chewing about anything at all, any criticism, or just want to put me down, let me have it!

     Because whatever I see happening in the world, I will express myself here, because it’s my way of getting the emotion off my chest, and if that person reads this, I want them to know if I could, I would say it in person.

Well The Cat’s Out

     The proverbial cat is out of the bag. Or maybe the cat has turned around and can see it’s way out of the bag may be a better way to say what I have to say.

     Today I have told my sister AND MOM that I have been writing this blog. It was kind of weird to come forth with what I have been up to, but if they are interested in what I have to say, they are welcome to come back.

     That is if they don’t have heart attacks first.

     My wife had known all along this blog has been going on. But now I have stretched my sister and mom in on the chaos of what has been going on in my life. They may be blown away at some of the things I have already written, or will write in the future, or maybe THIS one.

     But I have lived a bit of a crazy, chaotic, wrenching, mind-blowing, roller coaster, angry, happy, disappointing, joyful, and whatever kind of adjective you can think of kind of life. But I made it through.  They know some of the things I have told them. But I have never really poured out the ridiculous details.

     Until now! 

     So mom and sis? You have been given your passes into my world. Please be open-minded and don’t make judgements. I made it through. I’m still alive and stronger and more experienced that even I thought I would ever be.

     And you know what? Getting old is fun. I embrace it. But it can also be a BITCH!